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Being Single is Good or Bad ?



Many of us think that being in a relationship is very complicated and second thought is why I am still single?
Then we try to search for someone whom with we can share our life. Now the main question occurs is being single is good or bad thing ?
The answer is what you need. There are both bad things and good things of being a single. But before that let's try to find out why we are still single. Here are some major reasons that I would like to share with you...

Number One: Girls  don't like boys who are not capable of making a good conversation. Every girl wants a person who has a good sense of humor and of course confidence for making an proposal. You see most of the girls like to here proposal from the boys. But some people don't have that level of courage. So they remain silent.

Number Two: The days of being an honest man are over. Don't know what happen to the world but these days girls like boys who are very smart or I should say liars who are dating with more than one girl and having relationships.

Number Three: Majority says that we don't like the people who like us very much. So it stands that if any girl/boy likes you than you don't like her/him because it is a known fact that you can not force feelings.

Number Four: If you like a girl but you can't tell her about your feelings because she has a boyfriend. That's what we all do because trying to get a girl who is already in a relationship means you are ruining someone else life and that would be a case of being out of morality.

Number Five: You like a girl who is your best friend and you are confused to tell her everything or not because you are afraid that if you tell her what you feel about her you will loose her friendship.

Number Six: You like a girl but she does not belong from your religion so it is hard for you tell her that you love her because you think you can't marry someone who is out of your religion.

These were some major facts , now let's see the benefits of being single.

Num1# A man who is not in a relationship has the ability to live his life in his own terms. This kind of people are really happy with their life because they don't want any person to interfere in their matters.

Num2# When you are in relationship you think about having dinner or buy a gift for the one you love, but if you don't have relationship you can save a lot of money. Instead of wasting money on relationship try to invest it somewhere or save the money in a bank.

Num3# If you are not in a relationship that means you are strong enough to live alone, plus you are free to do what you want and also an independent person.

So these means that a single person more happier than someone who is in a relationship ?
As I have told it all depends on you...I know many people who were in a relationship for only few months because they got through worse experience and I also know many people who are having relationship for many years and still happy. So it is all up to that person how to handle every situation.


Life is full of pain and happiness, so it is up to you find your happiness.


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